Removing
Negative Thoughts
by Randy Gage
The
question people often ask me is when their self-development work
and personal growth finally takes, is when will they
stop having negative thoughts. I wish I knew. Although Im
afraid the answer could be never.
I
play CDs with positive subliminal messages while I sleep each
night. I start each day by reading something positive, and end
each night the same way. I have many positive, success-oriented
people in my life. I feast regularly on positive books, tapes
and other programs. And let me tell you what happened yesterday
I
have an embarrassing confession to make.
I
was practicing the vacuum law of prosperity in my closet again.
I decided that since I have so many nice, stylish and beautiful
clothes I was going to stop wearing blue jeans so often.
The last time I did this, I gave away over 40 pairs of jeans.
I still have about 15 left.
About
five of them are black Armani, Boss or other designer jeans that
I could wear with a sport coat or similar situation. That left
me still with ten pairs of blue jeans. I made a spur of the moment
decision to give away nine of them. I figured that way I couldnt
be lazy and just reach in the closet and grab a pair every day.
So I stacked the nine pairs up on my donation pile. And then it
came . . .
The
thought.
For
a fleeting moment I thought about what would happen if I lost
everything and had to start over again. And I thought about the
possibility that I might have to take a blue collar or manual
labor job where I would want to have those blue jeans again.
And
that blows my mind.
For
the sake of this neurotic fantasy, lets suppose I lost everything
tomorrow. Everything.
I
could start a restaurant chain (Which I already have the concept
for) and would likely become a billionaire. I need just snap my
fingers and I could have ten or twenty investors.
I
could start up my speaking business and make millions of dollars
from scratch.
I
could announce that I was available for copywriting projects and
pull in a million dollars a year.
I
could jump back into network marketing and be worth a couple million
in a few years.
I
could announce my availability as a marketing consultant and have
more business than I could possibly handle.
If
I mentioned to my Mastermind Council that I was looking for a
job, I would have two or three high five figure offers in five
minutes.
Truth
is, it wouldnt matter what business I do, I would be successful
in it. I could make a fabulous living anywhere I go.
But
I still had that thought . . .
Fleeting,
though it was. And I have been working on my prosperity consciousness
for 13 years! Ive made millions of dollars, I have the ability
to make billions more. I judiciously guard against negative programming
to the point that I will leave a movie halfway through, or end
a conversation in a mid sentence. And I still had that thought.
And
know what?
Ive
had lots of other ones. Sometimes ten a day. As rich, successful,
healthy and happy as Ive become, I have often still had
fear-based thoughts. Looking back now, I see a lot of things I
did, thinking they were prosperous, but I see now they were fear-based.
When
I bought a bike, I bought a titanium professional race bike for
$3,000. I remember thinking then that if things got bad, I could
always sell it for some quick cash.
Well
I bought three Vipers at the same time, I felt secure, knowing
I could always sell one or two and scrape together a hundred grand.
Coming
from the place I did, I always felt like I was somehow cheating
destiny. That God, or the universe, or someone was going to wake
up one day and discover that I had acquired wealth by mistake.
And given my mothers proclivity for worst case, nuclear
meltdown scenarios, I still had that niggling thought in the back
of my mindthe defensive, better-prepare-for-the-really-bad-scenario,
and have my options coveredjust in case. And not get my
hopes up too highbecause then I was setting myself up for
a great disappointment.
And
like I told you, Ive had those kinds of thoughts recently,
as many as ten a day. But heres the difference . . .
I
notice every one of them now. Immediately. And I often laugh about
how silly they are. Best of all, I see the progression of my mindset.
First,
I had hundreds of negative thoughts a day, and noticed none of
them.
Then
I graduated to the point that I had lots of negative thoughts
a day and noticed some of them.
From
there I got to the point that I had less negative thoughts a day
and I noticed a lot of them.
And
gradually over time, I started having less and less of them. Some
days I have none. And now when I do have them, I catch myself
right away.
I
used to wear a rubber band on my wrist, and snap it when I had
a lack thought. Now I no longer need to do that. I just tap my
fingers on my forehead. Thats the signal to my mind, and
I instantly reject that thought, and replace it with another one.
And once that happens. The world changes.
So
when do the negative thoughts end? I doubt they ever do. The sheer
enormity of how much negative and lack programming you will be
assaulted with over the course of a lifetime makes that seem unlikely.
(But lets not affirm that.)
In
any event, if you keep counter-programmingyou will win the
fight. Because once you control the programmingyou control
the mindset. And once you control the mindsetyou control
your destiny!
Start
a life journal and track your negative lack and limitation thoughts
and tally them. At the end of each day, spend some time thinking
about this subject.
If
I were to spend the day with youhow many times would I say,
Lets not affirm that? How many times did you
think about attempting something and consider not doing it because
you thought you would fail? How many times did you just simply
assume bad or less-than-great things were going to happen to you?
When
you really analyze the day and think about this regularlyyou
will start to notice these thoughts. And once you do that, they
lose most of their power.
And
your mindset starts to change . . .
You
change your core fundamental beliefs. You believe you are supposed
to be healthy, happy and prosperous. You believe you are worthy.
And when you are confronted with dozens of situations each day,
most minor, some bigger, and even some that are majoryou
expect good things to happen to you!
You
expect to find that tie you need to complete the perfect outfit,
you expect to win in a sporting event, you figure you are next
in line for that promotion, or you expect your business ventures
to be successful.
And
because you expect good things to happen to youyou approach
life differently. You approach it expecting to end up on top.
And because you believe itthats exactly what happens!
Aint it great?
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Excerpted from Randy Gages monthly lesson for Breakthrough
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For
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self-limiting beliefs into self-fulfilling breakthroughs to achieve
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of body-mind development and personal growth. He is the author
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